Although these stereotypes are popular, the truth is that the other woman may have a variety of agendas fueling her behavior.
Depending
on her age, social class and marital status, she might be cárousing
with another woman's man for several reasons other than love. Below are
the top five.
#1 The séx is hot.
Just
like a lot of men, many women crave séx. As a result, when some women
meet a man that they have an undeniable séxual attraction to, they rush
forward and pouncé. Although it's not always admitted to, this is one
reason why some women just can't let a married man go. They love the séx
and, as a result, refuse to end the relationship.
#2 She doesn't think it's hurting anyone.
Have
you ever heard the saying 'what you don't know won't hurt you?' This is
a statement that some females who play the role of the other woman live
by. They feel that as long as nobody knows (especially the wife) what
they're doing, it's okay. As a result, this woman will never stop seeing
the married man until things blow up.
#3 She loves the money.
Some
women barter séx for money. This exchange is as old as the bible. As a
result, if a man has a lot of cash that he's willing to spend on her,
the other woman will go for it without any regret. It's not that she
want's to hurt anyone or even be the other woman, she just needs help
paying her bills.
#4 She believes all men are dogs.
You'd
think that a woman who thinks so lowly of all men wouldn't wind up in a
dirty affair. However, this idea is wrong. Because she thinks all men
are dogs, she expects very little from them - including faithfulness. So
it seems natural to her that a married man would cheat since that's
what all men do anyway. If you ask her about the wife, nine times out of
ten she'll tell you about the number of times she's been cheated on by a
man. It's her justification for her actions.
#5 She needs to feel powerful.
This
point is where I believe Monica Lewinsky falls. Sléeping with the
President of the United States probably lifted her self-esteem and made
her feel powerful. It's a trap women fall into who like to sleep with
high-profile men. They get their energy and life from an accomplished
man instead of finding other ways to build themselves up. In conclusion,
the other woman might just be holding onto a married man for reasons
outside of love. She has her own agenda and unless it's upset in some
type of way, she will never let go.
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